About Me

I’m a woman who has been into spanking for as long as I can remember – most of us in the spanking community admit to feeling an attraction to it since childhood. I’ve been in a domestic discipline relationship with another lifelong spanko, relationships with spanking used only sexually, and relationships with no spanking at all.

I’m now married, and after 5 years of marriage I finally “came out” to my husband as a spanko. To my immense relief, he was totally accepting and agreed to start spanking me. We’re now navigating the start of our DD relationship and while I have to coach him along the way, he’s proving to have a natural inclination for it and is enjoying it as well.

I’m a hardcore spankee, never a spanker – I believe I’m inherently a type-B, naturally submissive person. I don’t mean that I’m a meek woman waiting to be told what to do – those who know me would tell you I’m quite the opposite! I mean that I’m uncomfortable being in charge. Until recently I was in a job that required me to oversee a lot of people and hold them accountable for things and I HATED it. In jobs, I’m happiest when I have a strong man that I respect in charge. Currently I freelance, so I’m glad my husband has stepped up to give me the discipline I crave!

When reading spanking stories and watching videos, I strongly prefer men spanking women, though sometimes I enjoy women spanking women if the spanking is good. I really can’t get into women spanking men.

I’ve been writing creatively since I was a child as well, so it’s only natural that I would incorporate spanking into my writing. I’ve ghost written some romance novels and have finally decided to write and publish them for myself, hence the birth of this blog!

And, lastly, I’ve recently decided to offer kinky writing services. You can view my website at www.badgirlcopy.com for kink-focused writing services including marketing, content, and custom stories written to order!